I’ve been a happy blog/smackdown follower/sharer since a little before Ike was born – thanks for all the laughs and the wise advice! My son just turned two last July, and with Christmas coming up, I’ve been obsessing over what to get him. One of the things that I’m trying to pay attention to is the gender messages in the toys. I’ve always considered myself a feminist until I had a boy-child and said “Great! Their toys are so much cooler!” (WTH, self?!?) I want to make sure I’m not limiting my child but I seem to have developed an allergy to pink. I’ve noticed that you’re great with getting the boys baby dolls, pink strollers, and helping them navigate the minefield of “regular” Lego vs. Lego Friends. Can you share some sources & tips? Thanks so much!