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Best Holiday Hostess Gifts

By Isabel Kallman

Last year we wrote about our favorite hostess gifts for cocktail parties, dinner parties and holiday open houses. We also highlighted some of our favorite types of gifts: drink coasters, unique matchbox sets, salt and pepper shakers, and fun family gifts.

This year, we have a list that we’ve been compiling all year long. Here are some of our favorites:

Whiskey Stones


Whiskey Stones
These whiskey stones are ideal for putting a slight chill in your malt. Or, freeze the cubes to add cold to any drink without diluting it. Brilliant! This is particularly perfect if you’re attending a cocktail party, though etiquette says that no gift is necessary.

Non-stick Edge Brownie Pan

Non stick edge brownie pan
The blog world fell in love with this brownie pan last year and has touted it as “the best new thing” which makes for great description of a hostess gift. This one will guarantee yourself a return invite.


Show Me How Book
You can never go wrong with a book and there’s bound to be something useful for your host in Show Me How: 500 Things You Should Know.

Unique Pencils

Mustache pencils
A great way to start off the new year is with freshly sharpened pencils and your sense of humor intact. These mustache pencils will look beautiful with a big ribbon tied around the pack.

NY Times Puzzle with Obama

NYT puzzle Obama NYT cover

You can have almost any NY Times cover made into a high quality 400-piece jigsaw puzzle at Hammacher Schlemmer. We think the November 5th cover of 2008 is just perfect. This would make a great Holiday Open House gift.

Christmas Tree Ornaments

A Christmas tree ornament is a very nice hostess gift, especially when attending a cocktail party.

photoball tree ornament
This photoball ornament will mix in with the color scheme of any Christmas tree.

A Bottle of Wine

Let’s be honest, a bottle of wine is not the most creative host gift. But, the Holiday season is crazy busy and picking up a wine is easy and, at the end of the day, still a very nice gesture.
If you’re going to go the wine route, consider dressing up your gift:
Wine bottle scarves
Find the striped hat and scarf set at the Sundance Catalog.

Stock up on some irreverent wine tags.  (download and print) Heck, you’ll be looking for excuses to gift wine bottles to your hosts.

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Isabel Kallman
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Isabel Kallman

Isabel Kallman is the founding mom of

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Isabel Kallman is the founding mom of

Feel free to send nice emails to isabel[at]alphamom[dot]com.

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Could you provide a link for the Whiskey Stones? This would be a perfect gift for my dad.
(The link is fixed. Thank you for pointing that out.)


great suggestions! i hope y’all update this list for 2009. for anyone interested, has several of these items on their website (in fact they blogged about the whiskey stones a couple of weeks ago). they also twittered about their hostess gift guide today and feature a cordless serving tray that keeps your entrees/appetizers warm or cold at your desired temperature. other interesting items worthy of purchase are designer wine bottle openers, cool cutting boards (like one made a chalkboard where you can write the names of cheeses next to each, etc), and herb gardens. it’s definitely worth a look!… Read more »

Paris Coddington
Paris Coddington

Fantastic ideas. I’m definitely going to try the striped hat and scarf set. I received a pretty nice hostess gift on thanksgiving….a bottle of Meursault White Burgandy (my favorite!), assorted dark belgium chocolates and batter blaster organic pancake batter. I have never tried batter blaster before but my kids are dying to use it because it comes in a spray bottle like whipped cream. I guess that’s good for me because it means there will be no mess.