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Guess What Time of Year It Is? Time To Skip the Offensive Halloween Costumes.

Guess What Time of Year It Is? Time To Skip the Offensive Halloween Costumes.

By Kelly Wickham Hurst

It’s here! I know, you too love the changing leaves and the crispness in the air and pulling out your sweaters and boots. It’s okay to admit that. Guess what else time of year it is? Halloween is here and parents are finalizing costume ideas from their children about some of the new ideas that crop up with movies and tv shows. I’ve already seen the very cutest version of the character Joy from Inside Out.

While I’m excited to see the creative and adorable costumes this year I am also bracing myself for the yearly frustration that comes with costumes that culturally appropriate or are downright racist. I wish this phenomenon would go away and that I didn’t have to warn people but somehow it continues and I’m hoping that’s simply because people aren’t given stern warnings around it.

I am here to be the harbinger of warning.

Recently, a white college student who attends an HBCU (Historically Black College & University) decided to snapchat herself in blackface and title it “when you just tryna fit in at your hbcu”. She attends Prairie View A&M which, incidentally, is built on a former slave plantation. It’s like every bad idea came together on a conference call and convened all at once.

Don’t be like that girl.

Whether you’re the parent of an elementary aged student deciding what to dress up as or a college aged student like the example above it is probably a good time to have a critical discussion about dressing up for Halloween.

  1. Not Every Costume Comes with a Mask. Let’s take Inside Out again for an example. In the story, each of the characters is a different color. Sadness is blue, Fear is purple, Anger is red, and Disgust is green. (That reminds me of when people like to talk about race and say, “I don’t care if you’re Black, white, or purple…” that’s not even a thing except if you’re a character anyway so let’s stop saying that, too.) These are the only colors where it’s actually appropriate to color your face if you’re child is dressing up as a character. If it’s black or white then be cautioned that those have historical implications for African Americans and Asians with our problematic blackface and yellowface ‘costumes’. Just say no to this.
  2. Superhero Costumes Also Don’t Need ‘Added Color’. When I dressed up as Wonder Woman as a kid I didn’t need to add whiteness to my face. It was all about the cape, the boots, the headpiece, and the Bracelets of Submission cuffs. Right now, the hottest superhero is Luke Cage, a Black man with a bald head and a bullet-riddled hoodie. It’s probably not something younger children will want to be (why are you letting them watch that show?) but older teens who consider it should be very cautious of being in blackface for that character. Don’t say I didn’t warn you about this one.
  3. Cultures Aren’t Costumes. It’s goes without saying that wearing the costume of a culture’s traditional dress isn’t a good idea. But, here I am saying it. Native American “Indian” outfits are highly offensive. So is dressing as a “Mexican” with mustaches and sombreros. The same is true for Sugar Skull costumes that signify religious beliefs. It’s far better to teach our children that these are people and that we can’t “wear” their lives for a day when we collect free candy from strangers. Or any other day for that matter.

I hope people realize that come October one of the hardest things for many people is seeing people try to make jokes about their costumes ideas that are harmful. It often comes off as a bad joke that they inevitably end up doubling down and telling us that we just don’t get it. No. It’s that they’re offensive and problematic and we can do better by our children when they want to dress up. My friend Angela, who is white, has a little girl who wants to go as a black cat. That’s an easy enough costume with leotard and tail and ears and drawn-on whiskers. But she’s not going to paint the rest of her face black. That would be stupid.

We can take this time of year to discuss cultural competency with our children and how characters and zombies and other traditional Halloween costumes have a place. We can also use this as a teachable moment for our children who, experts say, recognize race and culture at a very early age. Let’s guide them critically.

Photo source: Photodune/waldru

About the Author

Kelly Wickham Hurst

Being Black at School

Kelly Wickham Hurst is a social activist who does that work as an educator, as a writer, and as a speaker. After 23 years in the public education system as a teacher, literacy coach, guidance dean...

Kelly Wickham Hurst is a social activist who does that work as an educator, as a writer, and as a speaker. After 23 years in the public education system as a teacher, literacy coach, guidance dean, and assistant principal she launched Being Black at School, a not-for-profit organization whose mission is to provide resources for both parents and educators, as well as the Black students themselves, about how they fit into American public education as a system.  Kelly has a combined family that includes 6 adult offspring. Her writing has appeared in Yahoo!, Huffington Post, TueNight and she’s been a guest on NPR. You can follow Kelly at her personal blog Mocha Momma and on Twitter at @mochamomma.

 

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  • Myriam

    I like your take on it. I’ll steal that on from you, if you don’t mind : ” It’s far better to teach our children that these are people and that we can’t “wear” their lives for a day when we collect free candy from strangers. Or any other day for that matter.”

  • Angela

    And yet today Alpha Mom has 4 different Dia de los Muertos crafts – including T-shirts, masks, and necklaces…that conflicts pretty strongly with “It’s far better to teach our children that these are people and that we can’t “wear” their lives for a day when we collect free candy from strangers. Or any other day for that matter.”

    • Alpha Mom (TM)

      We here at Alpha Mom are a collective of writers and creatives for moms and moms-to-be. As such, we are a diverse and multicultured group of moms who represent various religions, beliefs, and cultural mythology. When we shared this Halloween post we did so with sensitivity in mind and with a respectful attitude towards racist missteps when creating costumes.

      While we are learning and working towards equity in representation, there are things which we appreciate being called out on. When we share culturally-based crafts we do so in a spirit of inclusiveness and learning about other cultures; we work hard at being respectful. Have we and do we make mistakes? Yes. But, we have and try to fix them. In this case, many of our crafts were created years ago, including the sugar skull t-shirt DIY for Dia de Los Muertos. We decided to leave that craft up with our Mexican and Mexican-American moms in mind as something to do with their children to celebrate Dia de Los Muertos. Our audience is very wide and diverse and we don’t want to leave them out of crafting ideas.

      I can see how these posts may seem like we’re sending conflicting messages and as such we’ll be thinking about possibly adding some disclosure language to them. Thank you for your message.

    • mochamomma

      Hi Angela,

      Can I ask: do you not think it’s okay to provide Mexican parents a craft here on AlphaMom? Is it too much to ask for inclusiveness while also recognizing when we teach appropriation to our children? I disagree with your notion that this is a conflict because the Dia de los Muertos is clearly not for you if that’s not part of your background, right? I’m trying to understand how you’re connecting these two things.