Ahh, breastfeeding. It battles with sleep as the #1 topic on the mind of new moms.
Your in-laws smoke like chimneys. Fannnnntastic. Is asking that they step outside for a cigarette really enough to protect your new baby?
“Look Mommy! There’s a dog over there! Can we go pet it? Can we, can we, can we puh-leeeeze??” There are some rules of engagement you should learn first that will keep everyone involved happy and safe.